Heal My Heartache
Heartbreak is not something to “get over.”
It is something to move through, digest, and transform.
Heal My Heartache is a deep, guided healing process designed to help you metabolize the pain of loss at its root, calm your nervous system, dissolve obsessive attachment, and rebuild the emotional foundation that heartbreak dismantles — so you can regain clarity, strength, and inner stability.
This work meets you where heartbreak actually lives:
in the body, the nervous system, and the attachment patterns that keep repeating.
YOU WILL GAIN ACCESS TO
A Personal 30-Minute Orientation Call
After you enroll, we’ll schedule a 30-minute call together. This call gives me the opportunity to get to know you, understand what you’re dealing with — breakup, ghosting, infidelity, or other relational challenges — and help you start in the right place. I’ll offer guidance on which practices to begin with, what understanding will support you early on, and how to approach the work based on where you are right now. This call ensures you’re not left to navigate the process alone and are set up for the most effective use of the course and sessions.
(This orientation call is separate from the individual healing sessions.).
Personalized one-on-one healing sessions with me, included with every enrollment, where we work directly with attachment wounds, trauma and emotional imprints stored in the body, nervous-system shock, and the relational patterns that keep repeating — facilitating the healing of the deeply wounded parts of the self. This is where the deepest transformation takes place.
Six in-depth transformational modules combining videos, corresponding audio recordings, and the accompanying article or transcript for each module.
You'll be learning a series of intensive practices that awaken your body-mind’s innate healing intelligence, enabling you to digest your lived experience of heartbreak and the sadness, grief, longing, anxiety, and other emotions stored in your chest, diaphragm, abdomen, and nervous system
As this digestion takes place, trauma bonds and unhealthy attachment patterns begin to dissolve — freeing you from cycles of longing, chasing, and emotional paralysis.
Heal My Heartache offers a comprehensive framework to help you understand why heartbreak hurts so deeply, how early relational patterns and trauma shape attraction and attachment, and how the unprocessed pain of past relationships becomes lodged in the body, and how it can finally be metabolized.
You'll gain deep insight into the root wounds heartbreak exposes — abandonment, unworthiness, invisibility, and fear of loss — along with practical tools to build emotional stability, inner safety, and grounded presence, forming the internal foundation required for healthy, reciprocal love.
You'll be working with body-based processes that reduce obsessive thinking, rumination, and emotional looping — allowing the mind to settle, clarity to return, and the constant replaying of the past to loosen its grip.
How Many Sessions Do I Really Need?
When you enroll in Heal My Heartache, you can choose an initial package of 1, 3, or 5 individual sessions. One or two sessions may be enough to provide clarity, stabilize you emotionally, and get over a breakup so you can move on.
If your current relationships are a series of painful reenactments of attachment wounds and other relational trauma, and your body is holding a backlog of sadness, grief, and other painful emotions, deeper work is required. With additional sessions, your body becomes far more responsive, lived experiences of loss and the emotions tied to them are digested, attachment and other deep wounds heal, and a new internal foundation takes shape — expanding your capacity to love and making healthy, reciprocal relationships possible.

I had moved from Texas to Boston to be near my fiancée. Shortly after, she ended the relationship and became involved with another man. Even a year and a half later, when I showed up in Ben’s class, I was still in a lot of pain and hadn’t been able to let go. I was still very much emotionally attached to my ex. After just two sessions with Ben, something shifted completely. I was done. I had let go, and I was finally able to move on.
At the time I met Ben, I was dealing with an enormous amount of stress from a toxic work environment. The individual sessions he provided enabled me to connect more deeply with my feelings and my physical body, and to heal the pain and frustration I was carrying. I wasn’t looking to meet anyone, but the work I did with Ben put me into a much more open and receptive space. Just a few months after we started working together, I met the man I later married — on the night of my birthday.
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